April!

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In one week, I will have a 2-year-old and a 2-week-old.  WOW.


Not much time to chat, but here are some pics from the last week:


Elke and Milena came by for lunch on Friday.  They brought a gift for Laine and one for Isaac.  New (plastic) Black & Decker tools were a hit with Isaac, Grandpa, and Daddy!

Yesterday was beautiful, sunny, and warm, so Isaac broke in the pool a little:


Laine’s Arrival

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The wait is over!  Elaine Margaret Walter was born at 01:19 a.m. on March 25, 2012.  She weighed 7 pounds 14 ounces and was 19 3/4 inches long.

We had been told at about 28 weeks pregnant that we may have to be induced at 39 weeks.  While we were grateful to get my blood pressure under control so that our little girl could arrive on her own schedule, my mind had already firmly cemented that I was only going to be pregnant for 39 weeks.  Once we hit that milestone last Tuesday, I began to get antsy.  On Thursday, I launched Operation Welcome Baby (so dubbed by Stephanie Naylor).  Thursday, I drank green tea, had acupuncture, got a chiropractic adjustment, had spicy food from Taco Deli, visited my midwife, ate some very rich cheesecake which has supposedly encouraged at least 3 other pregnant women into labor, went for a 1.5-mile walk, did some squats…  Friday, I had a prenatal massage with reflexology on my feet, went for a 3-mile walk, got a pedicure, went to dinner at Reale’s pizza (the owner claims 40 births 12-24 hours after consuming the pepperoni pizza)…  Saturday, I did nothing to encourage labor, but worked on a couple of outstanding projects.

Saturday evening, around 6:15 or so, I texted our doula, Shelley, to let her know that I had a mild backache and was “leaking pinkish goo.”  She said it could be very early contractions and I was probably just losing the rest of my mucous plug (because I’d lost part of it Thursday morning).  She told me to try to rest and not think too much about it.  That’s what I planned on doing. We ordered Chuy’s for dinner and the 5 of us (Todd, Todd’s parents, Isaac, and I) had dinner out on our front porch, which was WONDERFUL.  Todd had been working on the roof and around the yard all day and was exhausted.  We decided to get Isaac to bed and then crash, as well.  After putting Isaac to bed, Todd and I laid down about 8:30.  I texted Shelley at 8:18 to tell her that I was having mild contractions, but going to bed.  Once we got into bed, I had 2 pretty strong contractions within about 15 minutes of one another.  I asked Todd to call Shelley.  It was 8:51.  We asked her to head on over because I was having trouble managing the contractions.  She’d already started putting stuff in a bag and said she would be there soon.  She told us to call either Andrea (Dr. C) or Liane (midwife) to let them know that we weren’t ready to come in yet, but to put them on alert.  I called Liane at 8:57 and had a contraction on the phone with her that I wasn’t able to talk through, so she was aware of our status.  She got in touch with Andrea to tell her what was going on.  Todd grabbed a few things to start loading the car and I decided to go downstairs with him so that I would be there when Shelley arrived.  As we walked down the stairs, my water broke as we were two steps from the bottom.  That was a feeling I won’t soon forget!  I rushed into the bathroom and texted Liane, “…and my water just broke.”  The time was 9:07 p.m.  She promptly wrote back to send me to the hospital.  I called my sister, Kristin, to talk me through another contraction (Todd was handing the baby monitor off to his parents and loading the car), and then called Shelley.  Shelley said she would meet us at the hospital.

Our house is about 15 minutes from the hospital.  We stopped for several of the contractions and I think we actually pulled over 7 times before we arrived.  (TW: If you were on the road with us, I apologize.  We were the car that would fly by you in the fast lane only to then swerve to the side and hit the flashers.)  Things were happening very quickly!  Shelley met us at the door downstairs and got me into a wheelchair.  Todd grabbed most of our bags from the car and we headed up in the elevator.  As we arrived at the entrance to Labor & Delivery, Liane walked out to meet us.  Since our midwife greeted us and knew my water had broken, we were able to skip the triage room and go straight into one of the L&D rooms.  (TW: I however had to stay at the front desk guessing at answers… Do you have a pediatrician? Yes.  What is the name?  Um…  Does Heather have any drug allergies?  Yes.  What are they?  Um, penicillin maybe?)

I told Liane she wasn’t allowed to tell me I was only at 2.5 cm (where I had been on Thursday).  She guessed that I was at about 6 cm and an exam confirmed it.  I was 90% effaced.  The next few hours are a bit of a blur for me.  Shelley and Todd (and everyone else involved) probably have a better grasp of what happened when, but since I wasn’t doing things via phone any more, I don’t have a very good timeline.  (TW:  Heather was a rock star.  Her contractions were coming pretty quickly and were strong but in between she was cracking jokes and was all smiles.)  At some point, when I was about 9 cm, I thought I needed to pee.  I was told that would be a great idea and that I might actually be more comfortable laboring on the toilet for a little bit.  I walked into the bathroom to see the pillow draped over the flushing part mounted on the top of the toilet.  It actually made me laugh out loud to see it.  I sat backwards on the toilet for what felt like 5 minutes before I began feeling the urge to push and was shuffled back onto the bed.  The top of the bed was raised up so that I could drape myself over it and then squat back on my heels during contractions.  While this felt really good during the pushes, it wasn’t terribly restful to try to be up on my knees between pushes.  I think I was moved to laying on my side for a few pushes, but that wasn’t at all comfortable.  I ended up laying on my back, which was the one position I was SURE I wouldn’t labor in because I would be working against gravity.  It was, however, the only position where I could genuinely rest between contractions/pushes.



I pushed for about 2 hours. Todd was an amazing coach.  He counted for me because he knows how much I like to have something concrete and I prefer numbers.  (TW:  For other future coaches my conclusion was that it didn’t really matter what I was saying as long as there is something to focus on other than the current pain.  It’s kind of like bar small talk.  On the plus side counting is far easier than most small talk and apparently worked OK.)  It was also great to hear the excitement in his voice when he could start to see Laine’s head crowning or when a push was particularly effective.  (TW:  That was awesome).  It helped me to focus when I thought we were never going to get there.

I remember looking at the clock sometime around 12:45 and thinking that if I could have her in the next 5 minutes, she’d be born at the same time as Isaac.  That time came and went.  I did a lot of yelling at Andrea, who blessedly did NOT yell back at me.  I admit I was a bit of a weenie.  I got so tired that I was SURE I wasn’t going to be able to get this baby out.  Thankfully, someone suggested I have some cranberry juice to get a little sugar energy to push us to the finish line.  (TW:  Again, she was a rock star, pay no attention to her comment on being a weenie, she did this all with no drugs.  I wanted drugs just watching!)  I told Andrea to just “Get her OUT!!!” about 200 times.  At one point, Andrea said that if I really wanted her to, she could do that, but that wasn’t the birth story that Laine wanted to have.  I am incredibly glad that she knew what my heart really wanted and didn’t listen to the things I *thought* I wanted when the going got tough.  Toward the end, literally the very end, she said, “Heather, you can meet your little girl in 3 more pushes.  Can you give me 3 more good pushes?”  I told her I couldn’t.  She told me she was going to ask Todd, Liane, and Shelley and see what they thought.  I wanted to kill her.  🙂  Liane reminded me of a mutual friend’s phrase that “We can do hard things.”  I briefly considered killing her, too.  (TW:  Thank goodness we had all these other people in the room.  Not only did we really have a great birth team but somehow I was never the focus of Heather’s anger.)  Then the next rush came and I began pushing.  After that one, I thought, I only have to do that 2 more times!  I pushed through the next contraction and Andrea told me to look at her.  I didn’t think I could open my eyes.  I did.  WOW!!!  I looked down and Andrea was holding my daughter’s head.  As she turned her head, the rest of her little body slid right out and Andrea laid her on my chest!  It was so incredible!!!  (TW:  It was also fairly scary.  Again, thank goodness we had such an awesome birth team.  Laine was grey and limp and didn’t look good.  Only the positive happy faces around me convinced me that everything was OK.  It was awesome and scary at the same time).

I am outrageously proud of myself that I never once even considered asking for drugs.  (TW: Ditto on being proud of her).  It never even occurred to me.  I am disappointed that I was so mean to Andrea.  (TW: She wasn’t mean at all.  She didn’t even call her names or curse her family. If ever there was a time to be mean and be forgiven that was it and Heather did not take the opportunity.)  I will be eternally grateful that she didn’t “listen” to me when I was yelling at her.


We waited a few moments for the cord to stop pulsing and then they clamped it so Todd could cut it.  I believe the placenta was delivered a minute or two after that.  It was a tremendous relief once that was out!  Todd and one of the nurses took Laine over to clean her up a little and to measure her.  Andrea sewed up some tearing I had done during all of the pushing.


Proud Daddy:


Andrea, Laine, and me (funny to think I wanted to kill my sweet doctor a mere 30 minutes before this photo was taken!  I am a little amazed that she was willing to smile for me and didn’t strangle me given the opportunity.)


Laine getting her first snack.  I look like hell, but I was really glad to meet my little one.


The next day, Todd’s parents brought Isaac to the hospital.  This is him meeting his baby sister for the first time:


Nursing:


Snuggling:


We were released from the hospital 36 hours after Laine was born.  Getting ready to go home:


ADORABLE bonnet made by Grandma and a VT blankie from Aunt Krissy:


Sweet Girl:


Isaac greeted us as soon as we arrived.


He likes the toys on the carrier, but still isn’t sure about the little person inside of it:


Snoozing in the back yard:


Afternoon nap at home.  So much better than at the hospital!


First bath!


Grandma snuggles:


Todd’s mom has a zillion more photos that from her camera that I will have to post later as I get them.  I wanted to get this out there so there would be pics for those that have been eagerly waiting.

Still Pregnant!

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I am now 39 weeks pregnant.  Our official *estimated* due date is next Tuesday.  At our appointment with Liane, the awesome midwife, we learned that I am:


80% effaced (the cervix is thinned 80%,)
2.5 cm dilated (this will be 10 cm when Baby Girl is born)
Station -1:  Baby’s head is 1 cm above the widest part of my pelvis.  The stations start at -4 and go down to +4, which will mean that baby’s head is about to come out…

This is AWESOME considering that I haven’t been in labor or doing much of anything I wouldn’t normally be doing.  Hopefully we will get to meet her sometime within the next week!  I started trying a few “tricks” today to try to encourage her to come meet us.

I will keep you posted!

Septic/Sewer Project

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In case you haven’t heard, we’re connecting to the city sewer line after discovering (in January) that our septic tank floated.  The City of Austin is a bureaucratic nightmare, but the connection has finally been made.  Now we need them to come back out to inspect again.  I am not sure how much difference it makes since we are indeed attached and the septic tank is collapsed…


It’s been an exciting ride.  The first day of excavation led to a busted city water main…twice.  Our entire street was without water during dinner time.  Our neighbors were not pleased.


About 5 minutes before the pipe was hit (last Tuesday):

Lake Meadowheath:

Master Plumber, Eric, explaining that the City had come out and marked the pipe that morning.  4′ from where the pipe was ACTUALLY located:

Isaac supervising the trenching in our back yard (Burl is our contractor and is operating the excavator):

Floated septic tank – you can see that there was only about 2 inches of dirt over the one side:

Trench from our back porch and out through the gate:

Trench across the front, side yard:

Collapsing the septic tank (yesterday):

First Hair Cut

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Today, Isaac achieved a new milestone:  his first big-boy hair cut!  He was a CHAMP!  I took him to K.A.O.S. this morning to see Miss Barbara.  When we walked in, the movie Anastasia was on.  Coincidentally, it was the scene where she sings, “Once Upon a December.”  I was literally singing this to Isaac last night when he was having trouble falling asleep.  Good omen, I thought.  Anyway, when we walked into the hair-cutting area, he selected a big, pink bike to ride on for his cut.  All of the pink invading our house must be wearing off on him.  🙂  The whole procedure took about 15 minutes, the first 10 of which he spent mostly snuggled against Mommy before he sat up a little.  Then, Miss Barbara pulled out the electric trimmers.  She let him hold them to see what he thought, then held them against her cheek, against each side of his face (the plastic piece, so he could feel the vibration), and then against his back.  He leaned forward and she was able to trim around his neck perfectly.  It was a wonderful first experience.  She was quick to warn me that the next time may be more dramatic, but that’s to be expected.  I am proud of the way he handled it.


We have a little baggy with Isaac’s locks in it to put in his baby book.  They are also going to mail us a certificate saying he got his first trim.  🙂


Here are a few photos from this morning:


Before:





During:




After:


Birth Plans!

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I am going to apologize in advance if this post feels like a commercial.  I haven’t talked too much about our birth plans yet, and since I have such high confidence in the team we’ve got working together, I want to shout their praises…


Wow!  We’ve passed 37 weeks, which means…  We are full-term already!  On the one hand, I feel like I’ve been pregnant forever.  On the other hand, I can’t believe we’re going to be meeting our Baby Girl in just a few short weeks!  On Monday, Isaac and I went to see our midwife, Liane.  Our doula, Shelley, met us at the appointment.  My blood pressure was higher than usual (about 145/80) because Isaac had his first public, screaming meltdown at Burlington just before we left to go to the appointment.  Because Liane is awesome, she had my blood pressure taken again at the end of the appointment before asking me to take more tests.  The second time, it was only 124/72.  MUCH BETTER!  Liane estimates the baby to be over 7 pounds now.  I am sure she’s right.  Baby Girl certainly feels bigger than Isaac did.  I am glad to know she’s a nice, healthy size, without being so big that I’ll be worried.  Among the 3 women at the appointment, we are all pretty sure that the birthday is going to be pretty close to our actual, estimated due date (3/27).  I know that’s a relief for Todd…


Shelley encouraged Todd and I to write our birth plan for this labor and delivery.  I am really glad that we took the time to do it.  It was a great opportunity to think about what we really want our little girl’s birthday to look like.  (It was also good because it led to discussions between Todd and myself about why I don’t want to use pain medication).  In the process of reading through several books and web sites with suggestions, I realized that our birth team is exactly right for us.  So many of the things that are pointed out are ideas such as, “Don’t clamp the cord until it stops pulsing” or “Allow for skin-to-skin contact immediately after the birth.”  While I did write the second one into our birth plan, I have already talked to Dr. Campaigne and Liane enough to know that they are totally on board with this.  So many of the things that the authors of these books would have me worried about are just standard procedure for Dr. Campaigne and Liane.


We, of course, included the Plan B, which we won’t need, in case of a Cesarean.  The whole idea behind the birth plan is to say what our preferences are, but we recognize that sometimes things change and other plans become necessary.  If there’s one thing being a mother taught me in a hurry, it’s flexibility.  LOL


Shortly after I learned I was pregnant, my friend and fellow Baby Mama, Stephanie, mentioned that she had found an awesome new OB-Gyn.  I scheduled a “meet and greet” for the very next day.  That visit was incredibly eye-opening.  I hadn’t realized how much baggage I was carrying from my previous birth and within 5 minutes of meeting Liane, and then Dr. C, I knew I was never going back to my former doctor.  I literally cried from relief because I felt HEARD and UNDERSTOOD.  You can find out more about both Dr. Campaigne and Liane here.  They are both amazing women!  I can’t say enough good things about them…


I have been asked by a few people why we have hired a doula.  Todd summed this up nicely a few days ago.  I will butcher his explanation, but you’ll get the idea.  🙂  Because I want to have an un-medicated birth, this means that we will need to try different comfort measures.  Todd’s concern is that, while he will be amazing at loving and supporting me, he won’t be great at remembering which positions might help with a back labor or which coping techniques might   be best in other cases.  Fortunately, we have a great answer:  Shelley knows!  She will remember all of these things when Todd and I forget.  We recommend her to every pregnant woman we meet.  Todd will probably be doing that even more often once we’ve met our baby girl…  If you’d like more info on Shelley, check her out here.


So far, I am feeling really good.  I am eating better than I did the first pregnancy, I am getting some walking in, I’ve been going to a chiropractor, so I’m not in much discomfort…  I have gotten a lot of things crossed off the to-do list this week and I have scheduled appointments for things like haircuts and Isaac’s wellness exam, so I feel like things are coming together.  We still have some big things outstanding (am I getting a different car?  Are we going to get connected to city sewer before Isaac starts high school?), but I can only do what I can do.


Anyway, here are a couple of partial-group photos of the Birth Team of Awesomeness:

Shelley (doula-of-awesomeness), Heather (birthing phenom), Isaac (cheerleader), Liane (midwife-of-awesomeness).  Not pictured:  Todd (amazing father/husband) & Dr. Andrea Campaigne (OB-of-awesomeness) 



Disclaimer:  Isaac had this huge grin on his face between photos, but he didn’t want the nurse to capture it for posterity.

Photo Update

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Not much in the news these days.  Here are some photos from the last couple of weeks (WARNING:  partial of a pregnant woman nudity included):


Allison, Isaac, and Anderson enjoying a beautiful spring morning together:

Big-bro-to-be

Rockin’ out on the froggy at the park:

The drill set was all in the box.  Not allowed!!!

Being silly:

Belly button!!!

Daddy took a break from working around the house.  His supervisors were ready to assist.

Pregnant mommy:

New bang on the forehead.  Maybe I should just make him wear a helmet at all times?

Eager to help Daddy mow the lawn

Not the intended use for the work bench, but at least it’s low to the ground…


Baby Celebration

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I haven’t mentioned this on the blog in a while, so I will do so now.  I LOVE my Baby Mama friends.  It’s such a simple name for us, but it means a lot.  It’s unfathomable that I didn’t know these women 2 years ago.  They are such a vital part of my world!  Our little group started when Isaac (and Cash) were less than a month old.  A few of the mamas who joined later weren’t even official mamas yet!  One of the mamas has had her second child since the group started and THREE of us are pregnant!  It’s a little wild how quickly the little group is growing!


Mamas, I love you.  From the very bottom of my heart, I love you.  Thank you for being in my life.  Each of you brings something special and is an irreplaceable part of my life.  Most of you have seen me at some of my worst and you have loved me, anyway.


We had a baby celebration on Sunday for brunch.  We went to Kerbey Lane Cafe to celebrate the 3 anticipated arrivals.  Isaac’s sister is due in March (one month from today!), Henry’s brother is due July 4, and Christopher’s sibling is due in August.


Expectant mommies:  Marielk (Christopher’s mom), me, and Candy (Henry’s mom)

Baby bumps!

The mamas:  Karen, Allison, Stephanie, Bethany, Marielk, me, Candy (Julia & Valeria were with us in spirit)



Last year, for Isaac’s first birthday, there was a joint celebration for 4 of the boys of Baby Mamas (they were all born within 2 weeks of each other).  This year, we are going to have another joint party!  It’s so great to be able to do this instead of going to 4 of the same party…  We have started planning and are all getting excited.  Except for the part where the boys actually have to turn 2.  I think there are 4 mamas in denial about that part!


We had another OB appointment this morning.  My blood pressure is still behaving itself, so everyone is happy about that.  Andrea (Dr. C) let Isaac hold the speaker for the fetal heart monitor, so he and Daddy got to listen to Baby Girl’s heartbeat.  I wish I’d had a camera to capture the sweet moment…  I will be back next week for my next appointment.  At that point, I will be 37 weeks, which is technically FULL TERM!!!  I am so eager to meet our daughter that I can hardly stand it.  I know I am boring the pants off everyone I know because it is about my only topic of conversation these days.  Her crib bedding arrived last week, so we are ready to start setting up the nursery.  How wonderful to be prepared a whole month in advance!  We certainly didn’t have that luxury the last time.  We will be reusing Isaac’s crib and moving the changing table into the new nursery.  I am sure Isaac is going to wonder why his furniture is moving down the hall.  Nestle and Jackson are going to be a little more savvy this time, though, I think!


Todd’s parents are RVing up to Kerrville this week.  They are planning to be there for about 2 weeks before joining us here in Austin (unless we call them sooner).  They have been down in the valley since January.  Kerrville is about 3 hours from Austin, so it will be easier for them to pick up and head to Austin should the need arise.  I don’t think we’re going to meet our little angel before March 15, though, so we’ll let them enjoy a couple more weeks of vacation.  🙂

Pregnancy Update

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Great news at the OB’s office today. After 3-4 weeks of acupuncture, my blood pressure was 120/66. This means we are no longer looking at induction for hypertension. Woohoo!!! For those of you who haven’t been in the loop on this, at my 28-week appointment, my midwife, Liane, told us that because my BP was continuously getting higher, we may need to “invite” the baby to come at about 39 weeks if she wasn’t here already. High BP causes a placenta to wear out a little sooner, so the baby would not be getting the supplies she needs…
All of this is significant because it was the cause of Isaac’s induction. At our 39-week appointment with Isaac, I had been seeing a rise in my BP for a few months. An ultrasound showed that there was no amniotic fluid, so we were sent to the hospital to deliver Isaac that day. Seeing my BP go up again in this pregnancy brought back more than a few unpleasant memories. Todd and I have been talking to our doula, Shelley, about ways we could try to encourage baby on her own and what I could do about the BP. She was the one who recommended acupuncture. When I told Dr. Campaigne that I was going to try it, she encouraged me to do so. It’s so nice to have everyone on the same page…
Todd’s parents called yesterday morning to see how things were going here in Austin.  Todd is in Europe for the week and they wanted to remind me that they can be here in a matter of hours if anything exciting happens. They are still down in the valley this week. I am glad they are so close. I don’t anticipate an early arrival, but it’s good to know that I’m not on my own.
Last night, things were a little more interesting than usual.  I began having Braxton Hicks (false labor) contractions for the first time. I never had them with Isaac. They are more common with second pregnancies, so I was wondering if I’d have them this time. It would have been nice if they’d waited until, I don’t know, NEXT WEEK? to start.  I got a little freaked out, but since they didn’t hurt, I decided it wasn’t the real deal. Then I texted my girlfriend, Candy, who assured me that she would be right over if I needed anything. It’s good to know I have a support network in place should I need it! The contractions lasted about an hour and had subsided by the time I finished Isaac’s bath & bed time routines.
I talked to Andrea (Dr. C) about them this morning. She assured me that this was great news and that my body is “doing everything exactly right. Keep doing exactly what you’re doing.”  Awesome!!! She told me that she hopes to see everything continuing just this way for another 5 weeks or so (which would bring me to 40 weeks). I left the office walking on air.
Next week, we have an appointment on Monday morning. Todd and our doula, Shelley, are both planning to come. I am hoping to get a picture of our whole “birth team” so you can see who all of the key players are.
Meanwhile, Isaac and I had a great time playing in the yard this afternoon. For once, he didn’t play around on the lawn tractor. He was on it the day after his accident, though. At least he’s not scared…
Back at the “scene of the attack” Thursday:
Playing with his crayons Thursday afternoon:
This afternoon’s activities: